Monday, July 12, 2010

How to be atrue friend

I think we all have friends. A lot gets talked about friendships. Everyone wants a true friends, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called or talked a true friend. What kind of relations do friends share? When can we call a friend a true friend, and when can our friends take us as their true friend. After a romantic relationship, friendships are the most important relationships we can have. Although, all of us have family and friendships, most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration. How do we define a relation that can be called as one of true friendship?
All of this quistion,what can we do?
Initially,the very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies or behave. You will call your friend at any hour or time and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Afterthat,similar whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him or her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Next, important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think. We are sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are unguarded and open with friends in our talk.

The next step, true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his or her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him or her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children. If we share such relations with an adult we can say that we are true friends.

Finally, true friend makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him or her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good friends, if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky. If you can also become a true friend of someone, you will be blessed, because it is much easier for all of us to expect but very difficult to give. Be a true friend yourself first

2 comments:

  1. Hi Safaa,
    I like your topic here. I will grade this in a while. Did you see the blog about me coming to the ELI next Wednesday? Michele called me and said that you stopped by and asked her when I would be there. I will gladly come next Wednesday (the 21st!) so I can help you with any questions or work that you may have. Do you understand?

    :-) Kristi

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  2. Hi again Safaa,
    Very well done on this. You are improving all of the time. You only have a few mistakes here.

    -one comma error (in a series)
    -missing the word 'to' in your last paragraph. Can you see where?
    -typing errors 'after that' instead of 'afterthat'

    Good work!
    Kristi

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