When you were a child,did you believe in Santa Claus?
Santa Claus is a tough subject to tackle when you don't have enough money to buy your child everything he or she wants for Christmas. If they truly believe in Santa Claus and they don't get everything they want under the Christmas tree, they'll believe that Santa must have thought that they were naughty or that Santa forgot about them. It's your job as a parent to let them know the true meaning of Christmas. Read on to tell your kids that Santa Claus doesn't exist
Friday, April 23, 2010
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Random acts of kindness focus on the spirit of hope and goodness .They are a springboard for action. A time that it is open, a time to act upon thoughts of generosity that arise spontaneously from your heart. Just notice what happens as kindness ripples out!
A kind act is ''Random'' what it is unexpected-done simply out of the will to extend goodness, person to person, without expecting anything in return.
I found this at yahoo.kindact.com.
This is really great. He was in a McDonald's drive through with his 3 kids getting something to eat the other day. When he drove up to the window the woman smiled, handed him a blue card and said that the person in front of you paid for your food!!! His first response was, “are you sure???” And with an even bigger smile she said, “I’m very sure”. WOW! Are you kidding? He said “I am just astonished that someone would do that. Nothing like this ever happens to me”. He has’t stopped smiling. His eldest daughter and he can’t wait to pass it on somehow. And then he said “Thank you.”I found this story on http://www.yahookindact.com/ .
When random acts of kindness came, I was so excited .The first random thing I did was to hug a friend .My friend asked me what the hug was for, and I just replied,’ Does a hug need a reason ?''Why can't it just be random and from the heart? My friend told me that she never thought of it that way .I learn that in order for random act of kindness to work for me, I needed to step outside myself and think of others and enjoy the time I spend with them .I really came out of my comfort zone during the week, and I also made a few new friends!
so random acts of kindness week was really a two in one deal .By being kind, I was rewarded with hugs, new friends, and the feeling a person gets when they give for no reason. Let me tell you, that week was something else! When I believe it because kindness is not helpfulness towards someone in need, not return for anything, nor for the advantage of the helper himself, but that of the person helped. The most satisfying thing in life is to have been able to give a large part of one's self to others. http://www.random/
In conclusion, the best way to help each other is by creating a change in you, but about me ,I think feel gentelman ,by adopting a moral or ethical code of conduct that includes the concept of kindness and generosity. Of course, by parading the fact that you have a moral/ethical code can sometimes put into question how moral/ethical the code is.http://news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&u=/AP/20050207/AP_on_re_us/Jewish_rescue_4
A kind act is ''Random'' what it is unexpected-done simply out of the will to extend goodness, person to person, without expecting anything in return.
I found this at yahoo.kindact.com.
This is really great. He was in a McDonald's drive through with his 3 kids getting something to eat the other day. When he drove up to the window the woman smiled, handed him a blue card and said that the person in front of you paid for your food!!! His first response was, “are you sure???” And with an even bigger smile she said, “I’m very sure”. WOW! Are you kidding? He said “I am just astonished that someone would do that. Nothing like this ever happens to me”. He has’t stopped smiling. His eldest daughter and he can’t wait to pass it on somehow. And then he said “Thank you.”I found this story on http://www.yahookindact.com/ .
When random acts of kindness came, I was so excited .The first random thing I did was to hug a friend .My friend asked me what the hug was for, and I just replied,’ Does a hug need a reason ?''Why can't it just be random and from the heart? My friend told me that she never thought of it that way .I learn that in order for random act of kindness to work for me, I needed to step outside myself and think of others and enjoy the time I spend with them .I really came out of my comfort zone during the week, and I also made a few new friends!
so random acts of kindness week was really a two in one deal .By being kind, I was rewarded with hugs, new friends, and the feeling a person gets when they give for no reason. Let me tell you, that week was something else! When I believe it because kindness is not helpfulness towards someone in need, not return for anything, nor for the advantage of the helper himself, but that of the person helped. The most satisfying thing in life is to have been able to give a large part of one's self to others. http://www.random/
In conclusion, the best way to help each other is by creating a change in you, but about me ,I think feel gentelman ,by adopting a moral or ethical code of conduct that includes the concept of kindness and generosity. Of course, by parading the fact that you have a moral/ethical code can sometimes put into question how moral/ethical the code is.http://news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&u=/AP/20050207/AP_on_re_us/Jewish_rescue_4
Monday, April 19, 2010
food
For one thing,I like to eat middle eastern food as I can make the perfect kebab from chicken to beef and to fish,kebabs can be prepared just about every way .But ,like everything else in the kitchen,can be easily be undercooked,overcooked,and just plain inedible.here is how to make the perfect kebab every time.
Another kind,cooking with prawns.first,in the United State call shrimp,but elsewhere in the world prawns are prawns ,basically jumbo sized crustaceans that look much like shrimp.Prawns are just as they are expensive,when purchased fresh.In my opinion ,when cooked right ,they are worth every penny .But the key phrase here is when cooked right.There is a lot of preparation that goes in to cooking with prawns,like selecting fresh prawn,deciding to cook with shell on or off,and of course.
Another kind,cooking with prawns.first,in the United State call shrimp,but elsewhere in the world prawns are prawns ,basically jumbo sized crustaceans that look much like shrimp.Prawns are just as they are expensive,when purchased fresh.In my opinion ,when cooked right ,they are worth every penny .But the key phrase here is when cooked right.There is a lot of preparation that goes in to cooking with prawns,like selecting fresh prawn,deciding to cook with shell on or off,and of course.
Friday, April 16, 2010
Random acts of kindness focuse on the spirit of hope and goodness .They are a springboard for action.A time to be open ,to act upon thoughts of generosity that arise spontaneously from your heart.Just notice what happens as kindness ripples out !
A kind act is ''Random'' what it is unexpected-done simply out of the will to extend goodness,person to person ,without expecting anything in return.
A few years back about 5 years ago ,I was in an abusive relationship,unable to get out on my own .While attending a business conference in Dearborn,I met a man and became friends with him who has turned out to be the most important friend I have ever had.He knew a little ,if anything,of this relationship I was in .
One day ,for no apparent reason,he stopped ,gently took my arm ,looked me in the eyes and said ''Someday,someone will treat you as you deserve to be ,just let him'',than ,we walked on,nothing else being said .
In that time I was very tiered and think a lot about my life and my future what can I do to change my career.Thinking of those words I was finally,able to get the strength I needed to break from that abusive relationship,regain my self respect,and have now entered a healthy relationship.
When random acts of kind week came,I was so excited .The first random thing I did was to hug a friend .My friend asked me what the hug was for,and I just replied,''Does a hug need a reason ?''why can't it just be random and from the heart?
My friend told me that she never thought of it that way .I learned that in order for random act of kindness to work for me.I needed to step outside myself and think of others and enjoy the time I spend with them .I really came out of my comfort zone during the week,and I also made a few new friends!
so random acts of kindness week was really a two in one deal by being kind,I was rewarded with hugs,new friends,and the feeling a person gets when they give for no reason.Let me tell you ,that week was something else!
When I believe it because kindness is helpfulness towards someone in need ,not intern for anything, nor for the advantage of the helper himself,but that of the person helped.The most satisfying thing in life is to have been able to give a large part of one's self to others.
http://www.random/ .comhttp://news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&u=/AP/20050207/AP_on_re_us/Jewish_recs
A few years back about 5 years ago ,I was in an abusive relationship,unable to get out on my own .While attending a business conference in Dearborn,I met a man and became friends with him who has turned out to be the most important friend I have ever had.He knew a little ,if anything,of this relationship I was in .
One day ,for no apparent reason,he stopped ,gently took my arm ,looked me in the eyes and said ''Someday,someone will treat you as you deserve to be ,just let him'',than ,we walked on,nothing else being said .
In that time I was very tiered and think a lot about my life and my future what can I do to change my career.Thinking of those words I was finally,able to get the strength I needed to break from that abusive relationship,regain my self respect,and have now entered a healthy relationship.
When random acts of kind week came,I was so excited .The first random thing I did was to hug a friend .My friend asked me what the hug was for,and I just replied,''Does a hug need a reason ?''why can't it just be random and from the heart?
My friend told me that she never thought of it that way .I learned that in order for random act of kindness to work for me.I needed to step outside myself and think of others and enjoy the time I spend with them .I really came out of my comfort zone during the week,and I also made a few new friends!
so random acts of kindness week was really a two in one deal by being kind,I was rewarded with hugs,new friends,and the feeling a person gets when they give for no reason.Let me tell you ,that week was something else!
When I believe it because kindness is helpfulness towards someone in need ,not intern for anything, nor for the advantage of the helper himself,but that of the person helped.The most satisfying thing in life is to have been able to give a large part of one's self to others.
http://www.random/ .comhttp://news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&u=/AP/20050207/AP_on_re_us/Jewish_recs
conclusion, the best way to help each other is by creating a change in yourself, by adopting a moral or ethical code of conduct that includes the concept of kindness and generosity. Of course, by parading the fact that you have a moral/ethical code can sometimes put into question how moral/ethical the code is.http://news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&u=/AP/20050207/AP_on_re_us/Jewish_rescue_4
Thursday, April 15, 2010
''Random Act of kindness''
A few years back about5 years ago, I was in an abusive relationship, unable to get out on my own. While attending a business conference in Dearborn, I met a man and became friends with him who has turned out to be the most important friend I have ever had. He knew little, if anything, of this relationship I was in. One day, for no apparent reason, he stopped, gently took my arm, looked me in the eyes and said "Someday, someone will treat you as you deserve to be, just let him", then ,we walked on, nothing else being said. In that time I was very tiered and think a lot about my life and my future what can I do to change my career. Thinking of those words I was finally, able to get the strength I needed to break from that abusive relationship, regain my self respect, and have now entered a healthy relationship.
A few years back about5 years ago, I was in an abusive relationship, unable to get out on my own. While attending a business conference in Dearborn, I met a man and became friends with him who has turned out to be the most important friend I have ever had. He knew little, if anything, of this relationship I was in. One day, for no apparent reason, he stopped, gently took my arm, looked me in the eyes and said "Someday, someone will treat you as you deserve to be, just let him", then ,we walked on, nothing else being said. In that time I was very tiered and think a lot about my life and my future what can I do to change my career. Thinking of those words I was finally, able to get the strength I needed to break from that abusive relationship, regain my self respect, and have now entered a healthy relationship.
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Authoritative Parenting
One of the challenges every parent faces is determining the best way to raise their child. Parents want to provide structure for the child as well as encourge creativity,build social skills and in general prepare the child to become a well adjusted and responsible adult.There are many models for child rearing in use today,with authoritative parenting earning a lot of attention.
Definition of Authoritative parenting,in a nutshell,authoritative parenting is a stretegy that seeks to set reasonable rules and guidelines that are in the best interests of the child .The rules provide structure while still allowing room for the child to explore ,test ,and begin the process of learning what constitutes acceptable behavior.
Authoritative parenting is also a model that allows parents to express love and affection with no worries that loving expression will undernmine their control of the home.
Instead of a rigid environment where there is no masgin for deviation from the house rules,authoritative parenting makes it clear the parents are in charge of the household and will set limits .At the same time ,this flexibility methodology also encourages a degree of flexibility in the child rearing process.This flexibility makes it possible for parents to assess a given situation and take action that is appropriate rather than fulling back on disciphinary measures that may or may not help the child to matare.
One of the challenges every parent faces is determining the best way to raise their child. Parents want to provide structure for the child as well as encourge creativity,build social skills and in general prepare the child to become a well adjusted and responsible adult.There are many models for child rearing in use today,with authoritative parenting earning a lot of attention.
Definition of Authoritative parenting,in a nutshell,authoritative parenting is a stretegy that seeks to set reasonable rules and guidelines that are in the best interests of the child .The rules provide structure while still allowing room for the child to explore ,test ,and begin the process of learning what constitutes acceptable behavior.
Authoritative parenting is also a model that allows parents to express love and affection with no worries that loving expression will undernmine their control of the home.
Instead of a rigid environment where there is no masgin for deviation from the house rules,authoritative parenting makes it clear the parents are in charge of the household and will set limits .At the same time ,this flexibility methodology also encourages a degree of flexibility in the child rearing process.This flexibility makes it possible for parents to assess a given situation and take action that is appropriate rather than fulling back on disciphinary measures that may or may not help the child to matare.
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Death Penalty
Right now,I am against the death penalty .When you look at the death penalty system in action,you realize that the only purpose it serves is for revenge.It is seriously and intrinsically flawed in application and there is a serious and continuing risk of executing innocent people.Although ,it costs much more than life in prison,the death penalty doesn't prevent others from committing murder.No a reliable study show the death penalty deters others.Homicide r
ates are higher in states and regions that have it than in those that don't.
130 people on death rows have been released with proof that they were wrongfully convicted.DNA,available in less than 10%of all homicides ,can't guarantee we won't execute innocent people .If someone is convicted and later found innocent you can release him from prison,but not from the grave.
Live without parole ,on the books in 48 states,also prevents reoffending.It means what it says,and spending 23of24 hours a day locked in a tiny cell is not a picnic.Life without parole costs less than the death penalty.
The death penalty isn't reserved for the worst crimes,but for defendants with the worst lawyers.It doesn'tapply to people with money.When is thelasttime a wealthy person was on death row ,let alone executed.
Some people said,that is balance,if someone kills they should be killed and it's too humane.Give a vicious killer life under torture.
Right now,I am against the death penalty .When you look at the death penalty system in action,you realize that the only purpose it serves is for revenge.It is seriously and intrinsically flawed in application and there is a serious and continuing risk of executing innocent people.Although ,it costs much more than life in prison,the death penalty doesn't prevent others from committing murder.No a reliable study show the death penalty deters others.Homicide r
ates are higher in states and regions that have it than in those that don't.
130 people on death rows have been released with proof that they were wrongfully convicted.DNA,available in less than 10%of all homicides ,can't guarantee we won't execute innocent people .If someone is convicted and later found innocent you can release him from prison,but not from the grave.
Live without parole ,on the books in 48 states,also prevents reoffending.It means what it says,and spending 23of24 hours a day locked in a tiny cell is not a picnic.Life without parole costs less than the death penalty.
The death penalty isn't reserved for the worst crimes,but for defendants with the worst lawyers.It doesn'tapply to people with money.When is thelasttime a wealthy person was on death row ,let alone executed.
Some people said,that is balance,if someone kills they should be killed and it's too humane.Give a vicious killer life under torture.
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